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Topic After cancer treatment

Finished treatment? Trying to find a new normal or perhaps feeling a bit lost and anxious - share experiences and practical tips with other members and the online team.

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After Cancer

Started by Anonymous on 13 February 2018 at 11:04

Hi I am very new and sorry if I seema bit rambley but here goes.

I had Overian Cancer last year and went through the hystorectomy and chemo just in a haze I just wanted my life back I got through it and I am on my 3 Month check ups at the Christies I thought I was doing fine I went back to work and thought I was back to normality but I make a mistake in work last week and now I have lost all my confidence I feel like I can no longer do my job and my emotions are all over the place, I feel useless, I just want to know if this is normal and will my confidence come back.

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    From Robyn  
    13 February 2018 at 12:18

    Hello and welcome to Maggie’s Online Centre.

    First to answer your question these feelings are normal …. I am sure others reading this will identify with the difficulty finding any sort of normal following cancer treatment. It takes time to regain your resilience – physically and also emotionally. I don’t know what work you do or how soon you returned to work following treatment .

    During treatment , as you say you just got through it is often only when treatment finishes that the whole emotional impact hits – at the same time as side effects from treatment and it can all come as quite a shock to the system.

    It sounds as if you would benefit from some space to process what has happened and to nurture your physical and emotional strength . You would be welcome to visit any of our Centres (you don’t need an appointment you can just drop in ) and find out more about the post treatment support we offer including our 6 week course Where now. It may also be possible to make some changes at work to either have some additional time off or to lessen your hours/workload . for example.
    Have you told friends/ family or perhaps your GP how hard you are finding things at the moment?

    You are welcome to message me or Sue ( susieq) if you would like to talk things over in more detail.
    I would also recommend a book – the cancer survivors companion which I think you will find a helpful read , it has lots of practical tips from manging emotions after cancer treatment. You can find it in most libraries and also preview it on Amazon.
    Best wishes

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